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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to StayYou both like a good meal. You both like a comfortable place to curl up. You both like physical affection. You both like to play. You both have the capacity to care about each other. This sense of similarity or connection deep down is part of what creates a real bond between you. But when you start moving away from the dog/cat level toward the chicken/rhinoceros/snake level of existence and then toward the clam/worm/beetle level of existence, at some point the sense of any connection disappears. With the sense of connection, you can share your life with the creature. Without the sense of connection, you eat it or call the exterminator. The same thing is true with the people we find ourselves falling in love with. Sometimes thereБЂ™s that deep basic sense of connection, but, surprisingly, sometimes there isnБЂ™t. Sometimes we fall in love with someone whoБЂ™s terribly, horribly, profoundly, unbridgeably different. Yet itБЂ™s very hard to see or admit this, because, after all, this is someone youБЂ™ve fallen in love with ...» |
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