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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to StayWhere you know exactly what the otherБЂ™s going to say and yet youБЂ™re still ready to scream at the thought of hearing him say it. And yet, just the way youБЂ™ve learned to be mature and accept the fact that a good-enough relationship has fights from time to time and frustrations over intimacy, so, too, does boredom become an inevitable part of two people growing old together or even being together for the first six months. And I know very few divorcing couples where both partners donБЂ™t envy old bored married couples. At least theyБЂ™re not hating each other. At least their relationship is enduring. At least theyБЂ™re sharing a history. Still, youБЂ™ve got to draw the line somewhere. ThereБЂ™s some degree of cold, empty boredom that makes being alone seem attractive. Based on my experience with people wrestling with this very issue, hereБЂ™s the question to ask yourself:б Diagnostic question #34. Does your relationship support your having fun together?б This doesnБЂ™t ask if the two of you have a wild fun time every moment you spend together ...» |
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